Yesterday I had my first acupuncture session since the day of our FET #1 in December. It was mostly for relaxation and relax I did. It was one of those sessions where I pretty much dazed off into sleepy-land but I awoke with a jump feeling like my stomach had just squeezed or my airway had constricted- it was a little bit of a shock! I’m still not sure what happened since I was so out of it. It was just before she came in to end the session- she said I could stay longer if I wanted but I was ready to come out after that jolt! I gave myself a little extra time so I was a bit more with it by the time I started driving.
Just as a side note, I’m feeling pretty out of it today too, I’ve had an awful headache all day. I think it is a result of another jolt last night around 3am. I awoke to a blocked airway for sure this time, (sorry if this is a little gross), but it seemed like there was some kind of thick post-nasal drip/mucus thing happening in the back of my throat that completely blocked off my nasal passage for breathing. I think I’m kind of strange in that I can always only breath out of one side of my nose at night, so when that’s blocked off- forget about it! I’ve never had this happen that I can recall, especially when I’m not even sick with a bad cold or something. I don’t know what happened. But at 3am I was wide awake. Then I felt (again, possibly TMI) blood dripping where it shouldn’t and so I hauled myself out of bed and sure enough it was soaking through my underwear. I proceeded to freak out a little. Typically at this phase in my cycle, the blood flow starts getting pretty light, and this time it seemed to be getting heavier- plus I thought there would be even less blood this cycle after the scraping. So I was terrified that I must have some infection that is causing me to bleed more and more instead of starting to taper off. Needless to say, this kept me awake for a while. So, crappy night of sleep combined with stressfulness of not being able to breath and thoughts of some horrible infection that would keep us from transferring- resulted in me feeling like crap today!
Yesterday I also broke down and purchased the circle + bloom FET meditation series. I figured I want to do this right and maybe this will help. By the time I got it purchased and downloaded it was past midnight, not the best time to try it but I’m looking forward to fitting this into part of my routine. If anyone is interested there’s a discount code here. I know a lot of other infertility bloggers have tried it.
I hope this headache is just a delayed onset from my normal period headache and that nothing is going terribly wrong inside my uterus so that I’m still on track for the FET! I’m meant to start the estrogen patches tonight, then the ball really will be rolling. I’ll have to review my estrogen patch tips to refresh my memory on best practices!
I leave you with a quote from the yoga class that I dragged myself to earlier today, that I think strikes a major chord with all of us dealing with infertility, or any other major life challenge that feels unfair. Some of the positives for me are the good friends I’ve made throughout this process and the things I’ve learned about my body and my health.